September 26, 2026
Brendan
&
Sarah
September Twenty-Sixth, Two Thousand Twenty-Six
Whitby Castle — Rye, New York
A Love Story
Our Story
How We Met
A Game of Chess
It started at a gazebo on UConn's West Campus in Storrs, Connecticut. Brendan had noticed Sarah sitting there before, but it wasn't until one afternoon — over a game of chess — that they actually spoke. She was sweet, charming, and had a joy about her that was impossible to miss. He was sharp, kind, and had a quiet confidence she didn't expect. Everything just clicked. What began as a single conversation became the foundation of something neither of them saw coming.
2017
2017 – 2025
Growing Together
Built on Friendship
What followed were years of learning each other in the best way — through friendship and honest conversation. Brendan discovered that Sarah is an incredible cook, a gifted piano player, and has a sense of humor and a heart bigger than anyone he's ever known. Sarah learned that Brendan can pick up just about anything and find a way to win at it. Together, they found their rhythm: board game nights, competitive rounds of Mario Kart, afternoons on the boat, and countless games of pool. When life brought big career changes that landed them both in New Haven, it only proved what they already knew — they were building something that was meant to last.
The Proposal
Back to the Gazebo
Brendan knew the place had to be the same one where it all began. With the help of Sarah's best friend and her sisters, the plan came together — a day trip back to UConn, walking through campus for old times' sake. When they reached the gazebo, it had been transformed: candles lit along the railing, roses set on the table, and photographs from their years together hanging all around, each one paired with a handwritten story. Brendan read every word to her. By the time he got down on one knee, Sarah was already in tears. Her sisters and brother-in-law were there to witness the moment. Eight years after a game of chess in that very spot, the story came full circle.
August 3, 2025
The moment that started everything.
September 26, 2026
The Big Day
Whitby Castle
Now we invite the people we love most to stand with us as we make it official. At Whitby Castle on the Long Island Sound, surrounded by the people who shaped us and cheered for us, we will make our promises to each other. We are so grateful you will be there.
September 26, 2026
The Day's Schedule
11:00 AM — 12:00 PM
Ceremony
Join us for an outdoor ceremony as we exchange vows on the grounds of Whitby Castle, overlooking the Long Island Sound.
12:00 PM — 5:00 PM
Reception
An afternoon of celebration with the people we love most. Enjoy a seated dinner, heartfelt toasts, and dancing on the grounds of Whitby Castle.
Where to Find Us
Venue & Travel
Whitby Castle at Rye Golf Club
330 Boston Post Road, Rye, NY 10580
Built in 1844, Whitby Castle is a stunning Gothic Revival estate on the Long Island Sound. Situated on the grounds of the Rye Golf Club, it offers sweeping views of the water and surroundings that make for an unforgettable setting.
Open in Google MapsNearby Airports
- JFK
John F. Kennedy International
~35 miles · 45 min via I-95
- LGA
LaGuardia Airport
~30 miles · 40 min via I-95
- HPN
Westchester County Airport
~12 miles · 20 min
Parking
Complimentary valet parking will be provided at the venue. Simply pull up to the entrance and the valet attendants will take care of the rest.
Where to Stay
Room block details coming soon
We are finalizing hotel accommodations near the venue. Check back closer to the date for group rates and booking information.
Gifts
Your Presence Is Our Gift
Having you celebrate with us is truly all we could ask for. We feel so blessed to have each of you in our lives.
For those who have asked about gifts, we kindly request no boxed presents. If you would like to honor us with a gift, a contribution to our future together would be deeply appreciated. Your love, support, and presence on our special day mean more to us than we can express.
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