How We Met

A Game of Chess

It all started at the gazebo on UConn's West Campus in Storrs, Connecticut. Brendan had noticed Sarah, and finally one afternoon - over a game of chess - they actually spoke. She was sweet, charming, and had a joy about her that was impossible to miss. He was sharp, kind, and had a quiet confidence about him. That single conversation was the jump start to the forever journey that was about to take off.

2017

2017 – 2025

Growing Together

Built on Friendship

What followed were years of deeper friendship, growth, and constant laughter. Brendan discovered that Sarah is an incredible cook and a gifted piano player with a heart bigger than anyone he's ever known. Sarah learned that Brendan is quick to learn just about anything, and do it well. Whether it was board game nights, competitive rounds of Mario Kart, or afternoons on the boat, each moment was memorable because they were together. After years of life changes, both of their careers landed them in New Haven. Here, they solidified what they already knew - that God was paving their way to marriage.

The Proposal

Back to the Gazebo

Brendan knew he had to return to the place where it began. With the help of Sarah's best friend and sisters, the vision came to life. A day trip back to UConn, walking through campus, reflecting back on old memories was the perfect way to ask Sarah the question he'd be wanting to ask for several years. When they reached the gazebo, they were surrounded by lit candles, scattered roses, and photographs of their years together. It brought to life the story they had been writing for the past eight years. Eight years after a game of chess, he finally got his queen. Checkmate.

August 3, 2025

September 26, 2026

The Big Day

Whitby Castle

Now we invite the people we love most to stand with us as we make it official. At Whitby Castle on the Long Island Sound, surrounded by the people who shaped us and cheered for us, we will make our promises to each other. We are so grateful you will be there.